i tried doing that to someone who i love greatly.
but then i realized that what i tried changing them into something that wasnt
what i wanted and i ruined my relationship.
we didnt speak for two months and they found who they really were again,
and we fixed everything.
i turned them into a very ugly person, i turned them against all of their friends
and even their family.
all because i abused the fact that i made an impact on their decisions.
and in turn i literally ruined their life for a good year.
i will never, ever do that to someone again
because i learned that i could literally tear someone down to nothing
... all because because they cared about me.
